So I’m gay, I came out to my parents about 2 years ago and they will NOT accept my sexuality. They refuse to meet my gf and we hardly talk about it. It’s hard because I’m bringing my gf back home to show her where I grew up but I know if I tell my parents they won’t wanna see her. And I really don’t know what to do. I love my parents, I wanna see them, but I also want my gf to visit where I grew up.

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So I’m gay, I came out to my parents about 2 years ago and they will NOT accept my sexuality. They refuse to meet my gf and we hardly talk about it. It’s hard because I’m bringing my gf back home to show her where I grew up but I know if I tell my parents they won’t wanna see her. And I really don’t know what to do. I love my parents, I wanna see them, but I also want my gf to visit where I grew up.

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So I’m gay, I came out to my parents about 2 years ago and they will NOT accept my sexuality. They refuse to meet my gf and we hardly talk about it. It’s hard because I’m bringing my gf back home to show her where I grew up but I know if I tell my parents they won’t wanna see her. And I really don’t know what to do. I love my parents, I wanna see them, but I also want my gf to visit where I grew up.
haileytate7
i honestly don’t understand why people don’t support that i think it’s so adorable like it’s not there life it’s y’all’s and if y’all are happy they
haileytate7
should be happy as well
haileytate7
i say bring her over and show her where you grew up bc if you really like her you don’t need anyone else support although i know it’s your parents an
haileytate7
you would like them to support you and it’s hard but at the end of the day as long as your happy with who your wth that’s all that matters
I’ve considered just not telling them I’m in town and bringing her up anyways. It’s gonna hurt cause I love my parents but damn they are just too stubborn
haileytate7
exactly and i wish the best for you and her
haileytate7
how long have y’all been together
Thanks I appreciate it 🙂 We have been together for a year and a half
haileytate7
thats awesome!
haileytate7
hopefully maybe this will give your parents an opportunity to see that your happy with her and then start accepting it
Yeahhhh they’re pretty stubborn 😂 they will say hell no to meeting her. So I would have to bring her to my hometown and sneak around so they won’t see I’m back and didn’t text or call
haileytate7
either way i hope y’all have a good time
haileytate7
and sorry about them not wanting to see who makes you happy
jerimah
I’m sure they love you wholeheartedly and eventually they’ll come to the realization that you love your gf and if they love you they’ll come around.
haileytate7
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Thank you ☺️ and yes they really do love me. And I love them too. But they put me in this position where it’s like I need to choose her or them. And they make it so hard..
Hopefully they come around, but if they don’t that’s on them I guess.
haileytate7
you should never feel that way at the end of the day you should never have to choose and if they don’t accept you there missing out on someone really
haileytate7
amazing
Should I tell them I’m in town, or just avoid it?
haileytate7
i think you should bring up that your in town and want to show your gf around and if they don’t wanna be involved that’s on them
jerimah
You can’t tell yourself it’s on you when it’s on them. You can’t let people live your life for you. I say yes show them you’re serious
Yeah you guys are right. I really appreciate it ❤️ I hope you have a great night ☺️
jerimah
You too❤️🙏🏾
haileytate7
you too and i hope it all works out i’m glad you found someone that makes you happy. keep doing you no matter what

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