I’ve been cheated on before (not by current bf) and with my current bf (his friends like to cheat on their gfs) when he hangs out with them , my mind always goes to the worst case scenario. I don’t know what to do , I just worry so much. He’s Christian and probably the best person I’ve dated but I’m just so scared

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I’ve been cheated on before (not by current bf) and with my current bf (his friends like to cheat on their gfs) when he hangs out with them , my mind always goes to the worst case scenario. I don’t know what to do , I just worry so much. He’s Christian and probably the best person I’ve dated but I’m just so scared

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I’ve been cheated on before (not by current bf) and with my current bf (his friends like to cheat on their gfs) when he hangs out with them , my mind always goes to the worst case scenario. I don’t know what to do , I just worry so much. He’s Christian and probably the best person I’ve dated but I’m just so scared
I trust him but I don’t really trust them
xx.me.xx
Just cause he is Christian doesn’t mean he can’t be a little sinister. Maybe you should hangout with his friends with him even now and again?
xx.me.xx
Maybe it’ll even help you gain more trust.
He won’t let me hangout with them with him. i mean I don’t want to invade his guy time but I really don’t trust them
if he would just text me every so often or just let me know what he’s doing it would be a little better but he doesn’t
xx.me.xx
If you don’t trust him and your guy is saying something isn’t right. Your probably right. You should trust your intuition more.
xx.me.xx
Gut not guy
I’m with him usually like almost everyday so I get that he wants guy time . I think my problem may just be his friends and that I need communication and reassurance
but maybe my gut is right. I’m just a forgiving and hopeful person which has its downfalls
xx.me.xx
He probably won’t stay friends with them for forever and if you need more reassurance just let him know then girl. But if he doesn’t and continues
xx.me.xx
Then you should probably realize your right?
Yeah , I’m going to give it some time . I’m hoping they are friends he outgrows
xx.me.xx
Definitely but don’t forget to focus on you. So you have your own hobbies and friends. This way A. It takes your mind off of it and B. You know what
xx.me.xx
Makes you happy
xx.me.xx
So your not so torn if something happens.
Yeah I get what your saying . I’m trying to get out there and make more friends now that I’m back at school cause I lost most when I did online school. It’s just so hard cause I have anxiety and other stuff so it’s just hard for me to get out there
xx.me.xx
Hey it really helps to do research on how to present yourself to someone. It helped me with my anxiety and friend making problems. Still hard but u
xx.me.xx
At least know what to do to convey what you want them to know through nonverbal cues
That’s good advice . I’m going to do research and hopefully that helps. I’m just scared of being judged I think. I have type 1 diabetes and when I first was diagnosed I was looked at so different so that’s been a really big obstacle when it comes to meeting new people
Idk if I explained that well but like with me when something happens and it effects me I always remember it and it just makes me super cautious
xx.me.xx
I’m sorry girl but remember imperfection is actually perfection. And you should make a page and only follow women figures that makes you feel good
Thank you !!
I really appreciate it
xx.me.xx
Your welcome lol!! These all really do help. I’ve done them all. I hope it works for you!!!
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