I’m not sure what to make of my situation right now… I had an appointment with my neurologist and they found something on an mri that may be of concern. They’re sending me for more testing… I won’t go into details but bottom line is I told my bf and he said he couldn’t even talk about it cuz it upset him too much and just closed down. So here I am a bit worried and I feel like the one person who I should be able to talk to about it and who should be comforting and supporting me through it isn’t there for me. He said “you don’t know how your health issues (there’s a lot) affect other people”. Am I being selfish or insensitive in my needs?

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I’m not sure what to make of my situation right now… I had an appointment with my neurologist and they found something on an mri that may be of concern. They’re sending me for more testing… I won’t go into details but bottom line is I told my bf and he said he couldn’t even talk about it cuz it upset him too much and just closed down. So here I am a bit worried and I feel like the one person who I should be able to talk to about it and who should be comforting and supporting me through it isn’t there for me. He said “you don’t know how your health issues (there’s a lot) affect other people”. Am I being selfish or insensitive in my needs?

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I’m not sure what to make of my situation right now… I had an appointment with my neurologist and they found something on an mri that may be of concern. They’re sending me for more testing… I won’t go into details but bottom line is I told my bf and he said he couldn’t even talk about it cuz it upset him too much and just closed down. So here I am a bit worried and I feel like the one person who I should be able to talk to about it and who should be comforting and supporting me through it isn’t there for me. He said “you don’t know how your health issues (there’s a lot) affect other people”. Am I being selfish or insensitive in my needs?
k._aph
No ur not but at the same time knowing something is wrong medically with someone u love is hard to cope with
k._aph
Ur feelings are valid but so are his
How can I validate his feelings and respect his needs while also getting what I need as well?
I definitely see where he’s coming from
k._aph
Tell him I understand that it’s hard for him to deal with but he’s not alone ur scared too
but I feel so alone and three more I think alone the more I worry
k._aph
If ur religious ask to pray together
he’s not. I am.
k._aph
If not maybe talking rn isn’t wats best jus sit and hold each other cry if need be this could be something serious and u both are at a lost on what t
k._aph
To do and how to act
fair enough
thank you
k._aph
Anytime
k._aph
I hope everything goes well

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November 25, 2021Uncategorizedpatthehumanalone, feel, feelings, isnt, more, need, other, something, talk, well



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