how do i convince my ex friends and classmates to stop listening to the rumors about me?

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how do i convince my ex friends and classmates to stop listening to the rumors about me?
so basically i got pressured into coming out, and when i broke up with them they posted horrible stuff about me online
and when u defended myself (which i realise was too far) they showed everyone
and made up a sob story to make everyone hate me
i don’t know how to get people to listen to my side of the story, she’s not telling anyone what she did to me
juuul
Hi
hey
nickel
In my experiences in life, I’ve learned that you really can’t make people listen to you and they hear what they want to hear but you just be yourself
juuul
Yeah girl cliques are harsh. They shut down girls out of the entire friend group
juuul
That is insane
i just don’t know what to do, people i didn’t even know now hate me
juuul
That would never fly in a guy group of friends lol.
nickel
Haters gonna hate and people suck and are mean
i don’t really have any friends anymore , and i just want people to know the truth
juuul
How old are you now?
i’m 15
juuul
Yup I thought as much
__a_dark_knight__
I know it sucks but people are gonna say what they’re going to say.
nickel
You just have to be your best self and continue to do what is right and the people that matter will continue to be in your life
juuul
The only time girls shut other girls out of friends groups at that level the most is during middle school.
juuul
It doesn’t happen as often once you get older
nickel
Yeah middle school was rough
juuul
It is harsh but I’d say, you have two choices.
__a_dark_knight__
Rumors were spread about me once the only thing you can do is not care
i just feel like a horrible person, and it’s like no one realizes how she’s muniplulating them
__a_dark_knight__
They want you to care
__a_dark_knight__
Don’t give them power
juuul
You can try to fight it, which could be wasted energy cuz it won’t matter in like a year.
thank you, i just feel so lonely
juuul
Or you could ignore it and make a new set of fitness
juuul
Friends
juuul
It’s hard to get back into a friend group
there are only 25 ppl in my grade 🥴 i go to a small private school
in the middle of a really homophobic area
juuul
Where every girl in there has been manipulated into not giving you the light of day
it doesn’t help i’m from a big city (dallas) so they all think i’m a bitchy “city slicker”
nickel
Yeah it feels like that now but with time it will all get better and you will realize that you are better off without all that negativity in your life
thank you all so much
i’ll try and take all of your advise
juuul
I don’t think it’s worth it you will be able to make them your friends again.
thank you,

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