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Here to talk if anyone needs to vent!
Chicago
hey
Hey how’s it going?
__a_dark_knight__
Matt
What’s up? Need to vent?
Chicago
kinda
What’s going on?
Chicago
okay so my birthday is the 6th and i usually have a whole weekend with my mom and brother comes from Chicago
Well I’m here if you need me❤️
Chicago
but a couple weeks ago i had to get an op on my mom and my brother can afford to come to see me
Chicago
thanks
Chicago
and my grandma recently had a stroke and is now in a nursing home
Wow I’m so sorry to hear that. So are you saying you are basically going to be alone for your birthday?
Chicago
and my dad isn’t the type to make a big deal for thing so he’s gonna let me have a party but he doesn’t celebrate like my mom would
Chicago
i’m not gonna be alone i have amazing friends that want to make it special for me it just sucks i have no family
hurting
I really want to vent :/
Chicago
go for it
And about your grandma, at least she still alive and kicking. She’s just in a more stable place.
Chicago
that’s true
Go ahead and vent❤️
hurting
So my ex .. two months ago I found out he cheated on me.. he was dming his ex hook up.. while he was with me it was really inappropriate
And you need to surround yourself with people.
hurting
He was talking about how he wants to hang w her and how he would marry her
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And just calling her babe etc …
Chicago
aw i’m sorry
hurting
I broke up w him and since THEN he’s been trying to get back with me
And how long have y’all been together?
hurting
We were together for a year
And how long have y’all been broken up? Do you love him?
hurting
But it took him like 6 months to make me his gf he was Muslim and I was hindu he wanted me to convert and I agreed but found out he cheated
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And then later I also found a lot of shit out
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Such as him lying to me ab going out he would go to places behind my back and would act as if he was hime
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Home
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This entire two months he’s been trying to get back with his ex…
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I mean wtf not his ex me!
I know first hand that no matter what if you really love someone as much as it’s terrible to say. No matter how bad they screw up y’all can always fix it.
Unless you know he’ll do it again. Then don’t waste either of yalls time.
hurting
But he was also very controlling he would yell at me cuss at me etc prior to this
It’s rough I know but do what’s best for you❤️
hurting
BUT I started talking to him again right
Your happiness always comes first
hurting
And just yesterday I found out he was being flirty with his EX!
Chicago
def don’t go back to him
hurting
After allllll that drama he put me through he was talking to her in really flirty manner
What do you want to do?
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So after 2 months of trying to get me back
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He did the same
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He was crying pleading and telling me he would never do it again
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But even before we got back.. he did it
Chicago
in my opinion he doesn’t want to be with you he wants someone to be with him.
hurting
He prolly thought I’d never find out
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But I did
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Yeah…
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I’m not w him I never want to be
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But I want to understand why he did what he did
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Like for what reason… why would you waste my time AGAIN
He’s not worth the pain. And I might have some insight
Chicago
i think that’s best and you should definitely ask him why he did it but for you with everything i don’t think you should go back
Ask him and be upfront I agree.
hurting
ALSO btw he’s 28 I’m 21
So he’s that old and is still cheating? Is he successful? Like does. He have his life together?
hurting
And the night prior to me finding out him and I got into a huge fight where I told him hey if we were to get married and have kids he would be 30 and
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I would only be 23?24 MAX and I wouldn’t wanan so that
Chicago
your 21 go live your life!! go out and have fun don’t be upset about an insecure man
hurting
He basically turned it on me and said .. “yorue doing this to me after a year” he got really sad
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And hung up
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I got a panic attack and I tried calling him
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But he blcoked me
Chicago
sounds narcissistic
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But minutes later he unbcloekd me
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But I blcoked him and have been keeping him block
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Also he’s doing his masters and has an OK job… lives w his parents
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In fact his extended family Bc of how religious their family is
Chicago
girl he lives with his parents
He’s being immature and narcissistic. Keep him blocked you don’t need that in your life
I’m 22 living in my own place and Im a police officer. He hasn’t done anything with his life and is living a mediocre lifestyle. He isn’t worth it
hurting
He would like show up to my house and blow up my phone
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To the point where I wouldn’t be able to text
Chicago
omg
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Hence I only had contact or else I left 2 months ago and I was doing GREAT
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But him constantly bothering me got to my head
Do you feel your safety is in jeopardy?
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Also he sent his mom to speak to me and his friends fiancé ….
Chicago
don’t let him do all that get an op if needed
hurting
They try to get me to talk to him and I eventually broke our no contact every 2 weeks..
That’s just weird.
hurting
Like we wouldn’t speak for 2 weeks and he would blow up my shit
Protective order
Chicago
yes
Block him on everything
Change your number if you have to
hurting
I have a question for you guys
Yes?
Chicago
yea
hurting
So you know how he would reach out to me.. after I told him that entire not wanting to have a kid he hasn’t reached out to me.. I’m not sure why
hurting
Bc I have told him things such as I wouldn’t convert anymore..or I don’t love him anymore
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But idk how he turned the entire thing around and played victim
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I’m trying to make sense of how did the switch flip .. it’s confusing
hurting
Which I’m happy about but still… like what?
That’s narcissistic. It’s just a tactic people use to make you feel like you’re wrong.
Chicago
that’s what narcissist do they have a victim complex
hurting
Right
He’s just trying to make you feel sorry and eventually give in to him.
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So he replied to his ex saying that! Like hope to see you soon?
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Like and whole time he was crying to me
Chicago
i know it would suck to have to get an op but i had to with my mom cause her bf threatened to rape me
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Telling me he would never do anything of that sort
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After how I found out he cheated
Chicago
that’s ridiculous
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I’m so sorry that happened to you Chicago
Chicago
it’s okay i’m safe and doing the best i can
hurting
What do u think of that text
Life is rough and all we can do is adapt and overcome our issues.
The text is proof enough.
Chicago
but the point is is that i’m safe and she can’t be an issue in my life. i think he’s not gonna stop if that’s what he said after you caught him
I’m sorry to cut this short but I have some personal stuff to handle. I will do this again soon.

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